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Following the tradition: The 10 Lessons I learned in 2016.

1. Persistence pays off.
2. If the dentist tells you “you need a crown otherwise your tooth will break” believe it.
3. "Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly” You don’t get to decide how other people show love. You can only choose to accept their love or not.
4. When one door closes, the whole universe opens
5. You can do anything, but not everything. It is okay to slow down and prioritize relaxation.
6. Backup your pictures more often.
7. A dehumidifier is not an expense. It is an investment.
8. A hug is the fastest way to feel better.
9. To be in love with a person with whom you make a great team is the greatest of lucks.
10. The best thing you can do for the people that love you is to be healthy, relaxed and happy.

Happy new year!

Lessons learned in 2015

1. "Unless is passionate, mad, extraordinary love it is a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love should not be one of them"
2. Whatever you really want to do. BEGIN IT. Action has magic, grace and power in it.
3. Music is the most beautiful language you could ever learn.
4. Planning is very important. Things like not having cash, credit and your phone, and the telephone cable with you are unacceptable when you have reached certain age.
5. Sometimes you don’t have other choice than saying no. It is better to disappoint the person in that moment instead of breaking a promise.
6. People actually do prefer that you buy wedding gifts off their registries.
7. Don't use purses that close with Velcro.
8. To decide is to quit everything else.
9. The harder you work the more stress and satisfactions you will have... I find it totally worth it.
10. There still so much to learn!
Welcome 2016!

Obsesiones

El ultimo post que escribi marco el cierre de un ciclo en mi vida. Desde ese dia, estoy en uno nuevo y solo hoy tuve muchas ganas de volver a escribir. Debe ser por que estoy feliz.  Tengo muchos planes, muchos hobbies y mucho amor en mi vida. Lucky me.

Ademas tengo tiempo de disfrutar de mis obsesiones.Yo no tengo intereses. Nunca he tenido. Tengo obsesiones.

Probe muchos tipos de baile hasta que descubri el Flamenco y desde entonces se volvio mi mas grande amor. Estoy obsesionada con Logan y con Kevin. Y la nueva: el acordeon.

Y suenio con poder improvisar y con poder tocar La Valse d'Amélie  y las canciones de intocable. Suenio con aprender a leer notas y poder sacar canciones "de oido". Aprender musica es una aventura y un privilegio. Es algo que siempre habia querido hacer pero no sabia como. Nunca me obsesione con el piano o la guitarra, o la flauta o la mandolina, o el cajon o las castanuelas. 

Hasta aquel dia que fue la fiesta de fin de anio de mi oficina y habia un conjunto de musica folk rusa tocando el acordeon y mi colega dijo "El acordeon es el instrumento mas irritante de este mundo". En ese momento yo ya sabia que ese seria mi instrumento para el resto de la vida.

ya somos mas viejos y sinceros, 

y que mas da 

si miramos la laguna 

como llaman a la eternidad 

de la ausencia 

 

La chispa adecuada, Heroes del silencio

Para ti, el mejor de los comienzos

Happiness

Kevito

Me Poking Kevin with a stick.

Me: It is not fun is you don't complain.
Him: You are dating a behaviorist. I am not going to reinforce your negative behaviors. 

:(

My mother was right.
If works with autistic children, he can deal with me.